Who decided that older children and teenagers' lives have to be about having fun? If you say you're going on a mission trip or something, the automatic response is "Have fun!" What? You don't go sleep in roach city in a 3rd world country for fun. Fun is great, I'm just saying it shouldn't be anyone's primary goal who's over the age of, say, 10 or 11. The point of adolescence is to learn to be a good adult, not to artificially prolong childhood as long as possible.